Canadian Hairless

Dream about Boyfriend/Hairless Cat?

It started out at a party with a lot of my coworkers. My boyfriend is making out with another girl. Later, we are in bed together. He is only in his boxers and I am fully clothed. He is laying on his back and I'm on my side. We discussed what happened and I told him I think we should break up. He than starts crying.. but not like regular crying.. like the crying in cartoons. It's like two rivers are pouring out of his eyes. This kind of shocks me and I slightly back away from shock. Than this hairless cat.. which seems really content slowly moves from the end to the bed in between us and that moves off from view. This wouldn't seem odd except for the fact that this hairless cat didn't have a cat face. It had my boyfriend's face on it. Than all of a sudden my boyfriend starts throwing up everywhere. I take him to the bathtub. I than try to shut four different door. Three doors lead to the same place and I can only shut two of the doors. The other door leads to another room. Please, Only Serious Answers. Something I didn't mention. At the end of the dream, my boyfriend comes out of the bathtub. I think he is trying to help me try and shut one of the three doors.. but instead he runs into the one door that leads to another room. Leaving me behind.

Public Comments

1. SLEEP elsewhere like the sofa and buy the cat a faux!
2. pls pary about it
3. When I read the title of this, I had the immediate impression that the hairless cat was your boyfriend. then when I read the whole dream, you confirmed that by saying his face was on the cat. My immediate impression upon reading the title was that your subconscious somehow thinks he is weak, and then when I came in and read the dream, I am sure that is what the dream means. You somehow think he is weak, and would do things like making out with another girl, then cry like a baby about it. Bathtubs are the symbol of cleansing. You try to change him of his weakness. Four is the symbol of male power; three is about balance, and one is about beginning again by yourself. I feel you have had thoughts of breaking this off, but are afraid of his reaction. YOUR ADD'L INFO: He doesn't want to change right now. He would rather run away than to change.
4. I saw your boyfriend as the hairless cat too, but from the way you wrote the title "Boyfriend/Hairless cat." So this dream starts out like an anxiety dream. You're surrounded by coworkers and your boyfriend is humiliating you by being too free with someone else. (Poor boundaries with others-- letting people in too close either sexually, emotionally, or otherwise.) So later, when you transition into a more intimate setting, you're finding yourself unable to be vulnerable with him (fully clothed) while he's got no problem (boxers). He's presenting his front to you-- laying on his back, he's open, where your body language seems guarded somewhat. You say you're on your side, but you must be facing him since you didn't say your back was to him. You're strong enough with your boundaries to let him go. He's hurt you, you find his behavior appalling, and you are going to use your boundaries to create a safe emotional distance between the two of you. He will no longer hurt you because you've redefined the relationship. (Think of boundaries like skin-- it lets bad stuff out, but keeps in the good, keeps out infections and stuff, but helpful things in ((like water and food for your body.)) ) He can't handle the rejection and he can't handle the consequence of his behavior. First he weeps-- almost comically (if you've never seen him cry in your waking life, this is why your subconscious gave him rivers.) But your shock, your surprise at his reaction could be from the fact that he's not willing to accept the consequences, or it could be shocked that your brain came up with this comical crying. The hairless cat is some issue that is not what it seems to be. It's the mystery for YOU to figure out. We are often our own best interpreters because I don't know you-- you do, or you should. Here's the hints: the issue revolves around your boyfriend, which is why it's got his "face"on it. The cat itself could represent a woman (I've heard of that,) but really it's about what cats represent to you. If you're allergic, there's going to mean something else. For example, when I see a cat, it often has something to do with my kids, since there's always one cat or both in one of their rooms. But since this is a hairless cat, it's even more of a twisted issue. So the issue has your boyfriend's "face," and is not completely what it's making itself out to be. (Wow, that's complex! Whew! You're working hard here!) The fact that it's "content" would indicate that it's something your boyfriend doesn't currently have issue with. Sudden throwing up. Wow, that is out of the blue. Why did you take him to the bathtub and not the toilet to be sick? Was it to clean him up? You're caring for him in this dream, even after you've drawn the line and have broken up with him. Okay, I was baffled by the doors at first, but I see now that they're options. You currently see four options to this problem. (Whatever it is that the cat is about?) and three of these options have similar results. You're able to "close" off two options, one leads somewhere else (I don't know what's in that other room...) And then he gets out of the bathtub and flees through an open door. So here's the recap (if you're still with me:) There's an issue-- in this dream it looks like another girl, but in reality, the cat's got no fur-- the issue in the dream is not really the issue in your waking life-- gosh, it could be anything. (drug/alcohol abuse, since he's throwing up...) So anyway, he's got an issue and you're afraid of being humiliated by it in front of your peers (coworkers). It's interfering with your ability to be intimate with him (not sexual, but an emotional closeness.) You're worried subconsciously that he's unable to face this problem with out you (crying rivers), but he's rejecting (throwing up) the issue, or rejecting your help. You may not even be consciously aware of this problem (hairless cat with his face.) It may seem like something else is the problem, altogether. He has a number of choices to make and you know what you'd LIKE him to choose, but you're worried he'll just run away from the problem instead of coming clean (in the bathtub.) The best solution I have for you to is to pray about it and get some help-- someone who loves you and your boyfriend authentically-- someone you can trust. And pray about it. God bless you both.